It’s important to remember that these indicators are causes for concern. They are not, in themselves, confirmation that abuse is taking place.
It can be challenging to remain alert to possible signs/indicators without unintentionally passing judgement on an individual’s circumstances. But at the same time, effective safeguarding depends on some level of critical thinking. So, if you spot something that does not seem right, it is important to act on your concerns.
Behavioural Signs
- Sudden withdrawal from team/events/tournaments or social activities
- Unexplained anxiety, fearfulness, or changes in confidence
- Overly controlling partner or family member present at training or events
- Reluctance to speak or train without checking in with someone else
Emotional and Psychological Signs
- Signs of distress when receiving text or social media messages
- Constant self-blame, self-criticism, or a tendency to minimise their experiences
- Appearing overly apologetic or fearful of mistakes
- Isolation from teammates or staff
Economic Signs
- Late payment of club fees or other expenses
- Difficulty paying associated costs (i.e. sports kit/equipment)
- A change in financial position (i.e. the above becoming commonplace)
- Financial behaviours, such as the above, not correlating with known life circumstances
Physical Signs
- Unexplained bruises, injuries or clothing chosen to cover marks
- Fatigue, loss of concentration, or frequent illness that affects performance or attendance
Responding to a disclosure of domestic abuse in a sport setting