While it is not a common scenario, an abuser could self-disclose, or confess to certain abusive behaviours.
Additionally, a couple may choose to stay together in an abusive relationship.
This example scenario highlights the complexities of adult safeguarding, and one in which a sports club/community could be instrumental in supporting these individuals.
If you have handled all necessary safeguarding concerns, including signposting to victim or mental health support services, and if there is no immediate risk to anyone’s safety, then signposting to perpetrator services could be another crucial step in offering support.
Remember: Support services for individuals using abusive behaviours do exist, and you should signpost to them when necessary.
Such support services vary significantly from area to area, so a good place to start is with Respect, who run a support helpline for perpetrators: 0808 802 4040.